One of the things I admire most about Jeff is his love for his boys. Through the years, I have watched the sacrifices he has made to see Grayson and Levi every other weekend. For 9 years, he has made the 5 hour drive to and from Oklahoma EVERY other weekend. After working 60 - 80 hours a week, driving that distance was often the last thing he wanted to do. But he did it. He did it for his boys. I hope that one day when Grayson and Levi are older, they will thank their father for his dedication.
Watching Jeff interact with his boys is a treat. He is a "hands on" Dad that is often the life of the play groups! All of Grayson's friends want Jeff to play games with them. While all of the other parents are doing adult things, Jeff is right in the middle of all of the action with the kids. I love watching the pure joy on his face when he is playing with his sons.
Jeff has had great heartache through the years because of the limited amount of time he gets to see Grayson and Levi. As a mother, I can now understand the depth of a parents love for their children. It is so hard to see the sadness it brings to my husband when he can't see his boys everyday, when he can't tuck them in at night, when he can't help them with their school work and when he can't give them the love that only a father can give his boys. Nothing, except the peace and love that God can bring, will replace that time he has lost with his children. Divorce is such an ugly thing.
Jeff and I went back and forth for 3 years on whether or not to have a child. We really enjoyed our life with just the two of us. Having a baby brought the fear of losing that special couple time. We were still undecided when God decided for us! What a blessing He has given us. I look at Kade everyday and see God's love for us. He is my little angel. One of the biggest blessings Kade has brought to our lives is the ability for Jeff to experience TRUE fatherhood. He gets to experience with Kade all of the experiences he lost with Grayson and Levi. And let me just say, he is an AWESOME daddy! He gets up at night with Kade to feed him, he gives him baths at night, changes LOTS of diapers and takes Kade for the day so Mommy can have some alone time. In fact, I woke this morning to an empty house. I called Jeff and he and Kade were on their way to church without me! Jeff got him dressed, got his diaper bag ready, and even heated up a bottle to give to him once they got to church. I don't know many men that would do this!
Here are some pictures of Daddy and Kade. Jeff recently went to London for business and brought back some surprises for Kade. Here he is reading "Kings and Queens of England" to King Kade.
Before bath time
After the picture was taken, Kade peed all over Daddy...LOL!
Sir Kade















